tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22451784389185929292024-03-12T22:55:53.272+00:00My Safe HavensTiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.comBlogger67125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-77766248069163279662015-03-06T20:33:00.001+00:002015-03-06T20:33:24.719+00:00Lately<div style="text-align: center;">
I must admit, I haven't really been loving life lately. I mean, I do love my life, but I've been feeling a little restless. It's time for a change, and it just isn't going to happen without getting out of this funk! It's Friday, and I'll be without my baby girl this weekend, getting some much needed me time. So, it's about time I snap out of it. Therefore, I'm reflecting on what I've been loving lately.<br />
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For starters, I LOVE sleeping diagonally across the bed.</div>
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I love not being expected to cook every night</div>
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<i>Baby Bear finds cereal to be perfectly acceptable for dinner and I second that notion!</i><br />
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Just thinking about this next one made me laugh out loud.<br />
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And of course, dreaming of summer. Who else is over this cold business?</div>
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I'm really looking forward to a social weekend, it feels good to be able to plan things and be on the go again!</div>
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-82860303346570527892015-01-02T00:24:00.001+00:002015-03-06T19:55:38.216+00:00Happy New Year<br />
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Although 2015 has started with a deeply broken heart, with no answers, and no explanations. I will not let it set the tone for <i>my</i>
year. I'm just starting a new chapter in my life! I have a feeling only
greatness will come from all of this for me and Baby Bear. Sure, it may be tough, and the road ahead is uncertain. We're strong girls, and as long as we have each other, that's all that really matters.<br />
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I have learned some valuable lessons this year. I'm sure these lessons will be posted eventually, just not today. This year I'm going to focus on what makes <i>us</i>
happy, my baby girl and me. We're going to enjoy the little things in
life more, we're going to get out more and enjoy the great
outdoors and be more active, like we used to be. <br />
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On a side note I have not taken any of my RA medication in two months and have not
been in a tremendous amount of pain, and no flare ups. I have my appointment later this month and cannot wait to
see my results. Fingers crossed all is well, because I feel well. Maybe
even hoping for remission?<br />
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will be a complete adventure for sure, and I hope to have you all along
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I wish you all the best in 2015 <br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-13053215509771641742014-10-17T02:03:00.000+01:002015-03-06T20:35:21.324+00:00It's Been a WhileI haven't updated this little space of mine in quite some time! My goodness. We had a GREAT summer, and have officially got into the back to school groove. So let's play some catch up.<br />
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I left the only industry I had ever known, and entered into some untreaded waters at the very beginning of the summer. This company had everything I was looking for in a company, it just wasn't exactly the industry I imagined it would be. I had high expectations for a company I wanted to be a part of, and this one has not disappointed in the least. So, I can easily say that I have never been more happy to not be in the energy sector and oil and gas. Not to mention, it is practically in my backyard and I could easily walk if I really wanted to. I love my department, my boss, and the higher ups. We work hard, and we play hard. I love the fast pace, constant change, and challenges it all entails.<br />
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We had a GREAT summer! Much fun in the sun was had, and if you follow me on <a href="http://instagram.com/mysafehavens" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, you would have seen many pics from Baby Bears' swim lessons. They were a rocky start because of the instructor, but we switched instructors and she rocked those classes! We are so proud of her.<br />
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Speaking of Baby Bear, this girl has been dropping teeth like nobody's business! She has NO teeth! She gave up on an ice cream cone and ate it with a spoon! I think we may need to setup a gofundme account if she keeps losing them at this rate. That tooth fairy must be exhausted!<br />
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I honestly haven't been around much because I have NO time. I won't have a life again until the beginning of 2016 (and there better be a killer welcome back party)Yes, I'm still throwing my hands up in the air sighing in disgust. There's so much I want to pour my heart and soul into, and I just can't right now. Damn you responsibilities.<br />
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On that note, school has been kicking some major butt. All I have to say right now is eff you statistics! These last 5 weeks have been torture and hell. BUT I got a 93 on my final, so I guess it was worth it, but I couldn't have done it without a little help from my friend. She taught me, and taught me well. Will I remember a month from now? Probably not. Oh well, on to the next one, and the one after that, and that trend will keep on until 2016. Yay.<br />
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Baby Bear is in her first year of cheer and absolutely loves it. She only begged to do it for years, so I finally caved. We won't mention that she wanted to quit right after the first practice.<br />
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I also got back into fostering in March, and I love it. They get to find amazing homes with people who love them and want them, and that's what matters. We had a pup come in that we were only supposed to keep 3 or 4 days, who has become a permanent member of our family, and we just love her!<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-35008664711081772702014-04-16T14:34:00.003+01:002014-04-16T14:34:47.575+01:00Another Year Has Come and GoneI honestly cannot believe it has been 2 years since I have gone through the most gut wrenching experience of my life. It feels like it has been a lifetime, but it also feels like it was just yesterday. I don't usually get all serious here, but this happens to be one of those instances.<br />
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I still remember every word and every detail from those short 24 hours of holding on to faith and hope.<br />
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Mr A, Baby Bear, and I were all sitting in Subway eating lunch when I got the call from my Dad that my brother was in the hospital, he told me what happened leading up to him being taken to the hospital, which sounded like a stroke, but they found bleeding on his brain and he was being transported to the medical center downtown, in critical condition. We dropped everything at that very moment.<br />
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We made it to the hospital and there was a lot of waiting. We walked across the street to one of the only places open, which happened to be Chipotle and brought it back. I could hardly eat. The doctor finally made it in to speak with us and mentioned a blockage, where a clot had been removed from the back of his neck to re-establish blood flow to his brain. They said he was doing okay, and we were able to see him. I remember standing at the foot of his hospital bed as they were testing his reflexes, which were responsive, then they did the flashlight in his pupils and they dilated. The doctors were in good hopes, and we were told to go get some sleep. I went and picked up my brother's son, who was 2, and my daughter to take them to my house. I held those babies tight, tucked them in bed with lots of hugs and kisses. We were hopeful all was going to be okay. Until I got the call. The call to get the kids dropped off at school and come right away, and I did.<br />
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I got to the hospital, and was told his brain started swelling through the night, they put a tube in to relieve some pressure, but hours later as we were all around his bed, that is when the words nobody should ever have to hear came out of the doctors mouth. He said they have done everything they could possibly do. He then went through the motions of explaining their findings, how much in shock and disbelief they were that a 33 year old would have these symptoms. He was pronounced brain dead. I remember them doing the flashlight test again with his pupils, and there was nothing. It was a blur, but yet remember every detail, including the woman hacking and puking behind us, while we tried not to laugh. And the doctors that kept saying there had to be some underlying cause they just could not see. An underlying cause. I threw myself over my brother's warm body and sobbed. I have never been so shattered and heartbroken in my entire life. I was at the hospital all afternoon. Forced into lunch at Chipotle again. So many people showed up, and I was grateful that we all had the support. I don't remember the drive home. I pretty much cried all the way to Baby Bear's school, and in the parking lot before pulling myself together to go in and get her. I bawled in the driver seat as she sat in the backseat because I knew just as much as I was broken at the time, I was going to have to break her too. We did everything together. His son and my daughter were being raised almost like brother and sister. She still cries, and misses her Uncle to this day.<br />
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The next days and weeks were just a blur. Everything happened so fast, but it was slow motion at the same time. People came and went, and then there was the silence. The stillness. It all sank in. That is when it was real. It was almost as if his passing was not to be spoken of. Maybe it was just uncomfortable, maybe they just didn't know what to say or do. I did have my one constant that was always sending random texts asking how I was, and I appreciate that from her more than she will ever know, because when I felt my loneliest and when nobody was saying anything, she was always reaching out. It was hard for me to believe, only one person, out of so many cherished friendships.<br />
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Grief can be lonely. The world keeps on going, when all you want is for time to stand still, and that is the reality of it. I had to remain strong for my child. I had to hold it together for her, and I still do. If I lost it, so would she. That is just the kind heart and spirit that sweet girl has. I would cry in the shower, or on the way to Baby Bear's school when she couldn't see me from the back seat. <br />
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The first year was the hardest. I always wanted to pick up the phone and call him about something that just happened, or to just chat like we did daily. Then of course you realize you can't. Habits die hard, especially when you lose your person, your best friend. Someone who has been there since the day you were born. I can still hear his voice, and his laugh.<br />
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I still to this day do not eat Chipotle.<br />
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That first year brought me a new friendship that I cannot imagine life without now. Some days she is the only person I talk to. I was given 2 amazing co-workers that I will have lasting friendships with, who I also cherish and appreciate, even if most of the time we are laughing at my expense!<br />
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He has been with us everywhere since his passing. Baby Bear has certainly never been in any shortage of ladybug encounters since his passing. I still see him and feel him, and can hear his voice of reason. It took time to notice the little and subtle things. If anything, he has lead me to living in the moment, to really enjoy my daughter more, and most of all, he had brought Mr A into my life a couple years before he passed. It's funny how that works sometimes, isn't it? He was making sure all of us were taken care of before his passing. Not just me, but his wife and my younger brother too. I do believe in God, and I do believe in a higher power. There have been feelings and instances that I can only describe by true acts of God. In my darkest days and darkest moments, I know he is always there watching over me. The feeling of a brush across my forehead when I was going through some of the worst days and worst pain imaginable with my scleritis, looking up and nobody being there, repeatedly, to the way Little Miss Sunshine looks at me on occasion. I just cannot explain it any other way. It is a presence, you just feel it, and you know they are there.<br />
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I recently had the TV on for background noise about a month ago after my cousin's passing (which also hit our family pretty hard) and something told me I needed to watch what was on. It was Mystery Diagnosis on the Discovery Channel. (My brother's autopsy results weren't exactly conclusive) This brought some enlightenment for me. I have always been a "why" person, and it may or may not have been the case, but I think it is closer to anything else I have seen to what may have caused such an ending to his short life. Start it at 24:00 minutes in, and that is the story (ignore the subtitles).<br />
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Mr A was recently out of town the other weekend, doing guy stuff with my Dad. That also happened to be the the night Baby Bear had a mini meltdown over a tornado warning.<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-77516863073106653822014-03-29T04:56:00.001+00:002014-03-29T04:56:47.385+00:00RecoveryWell my surgery went well for all those that have asked. For those of you that do not know, i had surgery last Wednesday to fix the deviation in my septum, remove the bone spur, clear blockages, and open my sinuses. A lot of slicing and dicing up in that little place. The last thing I remember is asking the anesthesiologist if whatever he was putting in my IV was supposed to burn. Ha! Then I was awake and felt like I was going to ralph all over the place. So they hooked me up with something for that. Baby Bear came in, saw me, and cried. My surgeon threw in that he went ahead and removed my adenoids too. We went home (I had to keep my eyes closed the entire car ride because I started feeling sick), and I went to bed. Baby Bear cried some more and brought me stuffed animals to sleep with. Poor thing was worried about her Momma and uncertain I was okay because she saw blood.<br />
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I'm not going to lie, when I woke up that mess was pretty darn painful. I had a "bunny mask" on to catch all the <strike>blood</strike> drainage and had to sleep with my head at an angle. No, I didn't have black eyes, or bruising, or even any packing up there. Thank goodness! The worst part every.single.day was waking up. It was the absolute worst. My throat was killing me and I had the most pleasant taste in that mouth of mine. I honestly have to say Wednesday and Thursday really were not that bad. Did it hurt? Yes, but it was no big deal. Friday and Saturday though, those were the worst days. There was so much pressure in my head, and my teeth were killing me. Ice packs and hot showers were my BFF's!<br />
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Monday was my follow up appointment. I honestly thought he was just going to take a look to see how I was healing. Boy was I ever wrong. It gives me the jeebs just thinking about it. He suctioned that thing out like there was no tomorrow. The sound completely creeped me the eff out. You can add that to the list of things I cannot tolerate. It was like a shop vac slurping up a crap load of water, but in my nose. After that I was a little raw, but still shuddering just thinking about that awful sound!<br />
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Another thing, I'm super OCD about my nose, I was before this, and I cannot stand for anything to be in it. Boogers are not allowed in there-ever! I will immediately go into a restroom the second I feel anything there and get that sucker out and gone. So, all the gunk that has popped up after that suction, is driving me bat shit crazy!<br />
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I am still getting headaches on the daily, but I am sure that will subside, just like the teeth and pressure subsided. I'm going to have weekly suction appointments for a bit, so I get to do it all over again Monday. Joy.<br />
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Oh, and I have finally sneezed, through my mouth. Not brave enough for the nose sneeze yet because I'm still a lil tender up in there.<br />
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On another note, I have not had oily skin in years. It has always been on the dry side. I think these antibiotics I am having to take is making my face super shiny. It is nuts. My entire face and nose is completely broken out, and it blows!<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-5928526568709142242014-03-20T15:15:00.000+00:002014-03-20T15:15:15.173+00:00Recipes While I RecoupIf you follow me on <a href="http://instagram.com/mysafehavens#" target="_blank">instagram</a>, <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/MySafeHavens/" target="_blank">pinterest</a>, or snapchat (mysafehavens) you would notice the pictures, recipes, etc I have been using and posting for my vegan lifestyle. It has actually been a pretty easy transition, since I had already cut out all red meat for my liver, but it can get complicated as well having 2 meat eaters in the house! This is what 2 of our dinners looked like last week<br />
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Now, my taco was easy! I gathered black beans and avocado and placed it in the Ninja, then warmed them in a pot. I topped it with fresh tomatoes, sauteed onions, and bell pepper, and fresh salsa.<br />
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The avocado was pretty quick and easy too. I squeezed some lime juice, drizzled with agave nectar, and stuffed onion and tomato in the center, then sprinkled chipotle chili powder over it. Placed in the oven at 350 for 10-15 minutes and it was all ready to go. I also made this the same way, topped with black beans and sun dried tomatoes as well. <br />
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I just wouldn't be a good friend if I didn't share some of the best, real deal, black bean brownies on the planet. They were gone so fast I didn't even get a picture! Baby Bear and Mr A were both fooled with these. I wish I could take credit for these, but these are all Chocolate Covered Katie. They're gluten free too! Here is what you will need<br />
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Black Bean Brownies<br />
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1 1/2 cups black beans (1 15-oz can, drained and rinsed very well) (250g after draining)<br />
2 tbsp cocoa powder- dutch or regular (10g) (add a little extra if desired, I did)<br />
1/2 cup quick oats (40g) (See nutrition facts link below for all substitution notes.)<br />
1/4 tsp salt<br />
1/2 cup pure maple syrup or agave nectar (75g)<br />
1/4 cup coconut or vegetable oil (40g)<br />
2 tsp pure vanilla extract<br />
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1/2 cup to 2/3 cup chocolate chips (115-140g) (Not optional. Omit at your own risk.)<br />
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Black Bean Brownies Recipe: Preheat oven to 350 F. Combine all ingredients except chips in a good food processor, and blend until completely smooth. Really blend well. (A blender can work if you absolutely must, but the texture—and even the taste—will be much better in a food processor.) Stir in the chips, then pour into a greased 8×8 pan. Optional: sprinkle extra chocolate chips over the top. Cook the black bean brownies 15-18 minutes, then let cool at least 10 minutes before trying to cut. Makes 9-12 brownies.<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-12213997710371661072014-03-18T17:07:00.002+00:002014-03-18T17:07:43.636+00:00What's Happening NowIf you follow me, you saw the CT scan I posted last week on social media.<br />
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I am having surgery tomorrow! I'm actually heading out to my pre-op appointment in a few minutes! Of course, when I told Baby Bear I was having surgery, she got real
excited, and squealed "you're going to have a baby"?! I couldn't help
but laugh. She then got upset that she would not be allowed to watch the
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I am a little excited, and kind of nervous at the same time. I didn't think about it, I just scheduled it. I am hoping this offers some relief, since we have exhausted all other options. I just have reached my breaking point of being sick for the last 6 months. I have time off, so I may as well, right? So off to sinus surgery I go. They're going to fix my deviation, remove blockages and open up the sinuses, and I'll actually be able to heal since I am not around all the irritants anymore. I think it's a win win.<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-24059791397048580142014-03-12T21:17:00.004+00:002014-03-12T21:19:02.030+00:00My New LifestyleI know I haven't updated this space in quite some time. Things have been insane and I can finally breathe. Thank goodness because I have missed all of you terribly. I have been consistently ill since October. It feels like it was ages ago the last time I felt well. It just sucks!<br />
Needless to say, I have had enough. I have grabbed the bull by the horns and taken control. I quit my job! What? I did what? Yes! I quit! And I am completely happy and super excited about it. I am enjoying my time off before I start my new job. I see it as the best of both worlds. A vacation, and still being paid for my availability. I'm so excited I can hardly contain myself.<br />
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With me being ill for 6 months, I have been unable to consistently take my treatments for my RA, (for my new followers, you can read the story <a href="http://mysafehavens.blogspot.com/2013/09/weekend-throwbacks.html" target="_blank">here</a> and <a href="http://mysafehavens.blogspot.com/2013/08/good-news-and-bad-news.html" target="_blank">here</a>). I have yet another lifestyle change (you can read previous posts <a href="http://mysafehavens.blogspot.com/2013/09/what-im-eating-or-not.html" target="_blank">here</a>, that helped) to hopefully kick my butt into remission so I do not have to inject myself once, sometimes twice a week. Thank goodness I don't have a problem with needles (as long as someone else is doing the stabbing). So, I have moved over to a vegan based diet. Think vegan, but welcomes seafood. I have moved over to this raw/vegan lifestyle because after speaking with someone that was diagnosed with RA when they were a child, and are completely off meds due to this lifestyle, I figure what the hell, it is worth a shot. If it works, why not? I mean, it can't hurt anything. Stay tuned for some yummy recipes I will be sharing.<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-65942556059700108412014-01-30T01:30:00.000+00:002014-01-30T01:30:10.405+00:00January- Please Move On....My goodness, well look who it is! I have finally <strike>had time</strike> decided to grace all of you with my presence! Are you as excited as I am?<br />
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This month has been absolutely insane. Can we just go back and pretend January never happened? That would be great, thanks!<br />
I have an overflowing plate. I am tired, worn out, and just down right exhausted. Work has taken most of my energy, and I have really felt so burned out as of late. So many big things are going on in that realm of my world that I have had nothing left for months. Helllooo do you see me over here? I'm effin drowning, and you just keep throwing more water in my face! I really cannot bring what is going on with all of that here just yet, but I will definitely be writing a post on all of this soon!<br />
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If it weren't enough that work is kicking my lil patootie, school has been insane. Not just mine either, Baby Bear's too. I really struggle with wanting to be the perfect school mom for my child, making her the cutesie shirts and crafts for all her school projects, and teacher gifts, but there is just not enough time in the day for me to do what I want to for her, and I really have been feeling so crappy about it. The Mommy guilt has been kicked in full force here. How do you working mom's find all the time?<br />
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By the way, in case you didn't know, I'm in Houston. We have had not one, but two city shutdowns less than 5 days apart. I'll be guest posting all about this soon, so keep a lookout on <a href="http://www.badluckjenn.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Jenn's</a> blog for it!<br />
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This is all I have for you for now. School, dinner, and more work are ahead of this gal. Wait...what? Work? It's 7:30pm! Yeah, this has been my life as of late!<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-638415390695025882014-01-13T13:09:00.000+00:002014-01-13T13:09:25.407+00:00I Love Justin Bieber!This is a phrase I have heard many times from the mouth of my Baby Bear. Her eyes light up, she gets giddy like a little school girl at just the thought. Then the excitement bursts through her little body until she cannot stand it anymore and out it comes "I love Justin Bieber!" as she's kicking and squealing with the biggest smile on her face. Then follows "Bieber Bieber Bieber" She claims she is going to marry him.<br />
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This has become so much worse since we have moved. Before, it was every now and again, and now she is just completely obsessed with this Bieber character!<br />
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Let me introduce you to her "Bieber" who and what she calls Justin Bieber, and the guy she is obsessed with.</div>
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Texans know what this is all about, but for those of you that are not native, let me tell you what is a must on every Texas road trip. One word. Buc-ees. This place is known for the cleanest restrooms, their awesome fudge, beaver nuggets, and jerky. </div>
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Oh, and we cannot forget the <strike>Bieber</strike> beaver This is the best place to stop on our half way mark to Dallas, driving to Austin, and San Antonio. They are kind of a big deal here. Not to mention there is one in our backyard now (not really). Now, the one we live by is what I like to say is not a real Buc-ees, as in it does not have what the others have, it is a small version of them, and that is fine by me, because that means my road trip stops are still some of significance.</div>
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So yes, every time she sees this store/gas station she loses it. She is in love with the Buc-ee the beaver, but alas she says Bieber, and just so happened to add Justin on to it. I am perfectly okay with her never knowing the real Justin Bieber, and she can collect all the beavers she wants. Yes, I'm kind of rewarding her for it, and I don't care!</div>
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-85624349224185873942014-01-09T00:23:00.000+00:002014-01-09T00:23:11.116+00:00UpdateI cannot believe it has been weeks since I have updated this little corner of the great big blogosphere that I call mine!<br />
If you remember, the last update was about our <a href="http://mysafehavens.blogspot.com/2013/12/happy-friday.html" target="_blank">new house</a>. The week of the move, Baby Bear came down with the flu! So for Christmas we spent the day at home instead of with family. She had a good Christmas regardless, and we made sure of that. But I do have to brag a little. When she saw what Santa brought her, she said she got everything she had ever wanted; and she hadn't even opened presents yet! I honestly think she forgot about them. She then went on to say that next year she does not want to ask Santa for anything because she loves her family more than presents. She melts my heart. Her Poppy and Nanny came by later that evening and finally opened her gifts. <br />
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After she was fever free on her own, we took her to <a href="http://www.santas-wonderland.com/" target="_blank">Santa's Wonderland</a>. It was cold, but she had a blast and really enjoyed it. The lights are amazing. If I could find my camera in all these boxes that are my current surroundings I would show you some. So this is what you get.<br />
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After Santa's Wonderland is when I came down with the sickness. Flu and bronchitis, oh my. I'm still coughing here! There were none of our yearly visits that normally occur this time of year. We were a little sad about not seeing family this year.<br />
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But for now we are all moved in and just trying to get settled in. Work has been crazy, the house has been crazy, and I'm close to going crazy. Baby Bear decided she wants to bite the bullet and go ahead and go to her new school, so now I have withdrawals and enrollments too. Not to mention the crazy ups and downs with the entire move (that's a post for another day).<br />
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On a different note, I do have something I would like your help with. I love my family as much as Baby Bear does, and we all know the power of prayer. My cousin, Jeromy, has been in the hospital since Thanksgiving. He is still in ICU. He is in a delicate state at this time and it is still a lot of touch and go. He is still so young and one of the most generous people you could ever meet. I have looked to God to surround his body with healing and for the fight I know Jeromy has in him. If you would please help us continue to pray for more strides in his healing, and for our entire family, especially his immediate family, it would be greatly appreciated.<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-74646321908879567692013-12-14T00:18:00.001+00:002013-12-14T00:18:47.341+00:00Happy Friday!I can honestly say I am SO glad this week is over. 1 more week of work for me and I am done until January 2nd!<br />
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Things are happening so fast around here, so I apologize in advance for any absence. I have some exciting news. We are moving! Much faster than anticipated, mind you.<br />
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We went and looked at a house Monday, put in our application and they accepted and want a January start. This baby was only on the market for 4 days and they had several applicants so what is a girl and her family to do? Move. Duh!<br />
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So we're starting the process, running around like little chicks with our heads cut off. I am stressed to the max though! I'm just happy I am off the week prior and everything else is falling into place better than it was when we first got the news.<br />
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I cannot stand packing and moving and unpacking. Just thinking about it makes me want to stomp my feet like a two year old and cry "I don't wanna" <br />
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Speaking of all the box packing... Are you doing any Christmas traveling for the holiday? I know we are. I know, you must be thinking I am nuts by now. Move in is the 28th AND I'm traveling?<br />
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I though I would offer some of my packing tips I use when traveling.<br />
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I always have 2 suitcases. Baby Bear gets her own and Mr A and I share one.<br />
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I get stuck doing all the packing, so I use it to my advantage so I can pack more. Don't be afraid to use the Rubbermaid tubs either for packing for an extended time if you are driving.<br />
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If you are looking to travel at any point, you should check out more travel tips <a href="http://blog.paulfredrick.com/2013/11/25/how-to/10-ways-to-keep-your-style-crisp-while-traveling/" target="_blank">here</a><br />
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I hope you all enjoy your weekend. As for us, we will be busy. I have so much school to catch up on, we're going to go visit St. Nick, and celebrate a little before the madness really sets in!<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-92133840822630525832013-12-11T13:48:00.000+00:002013-12-11T13:48:06.700+00:00The Owl in the WindowIt has been an insane week at the office. Working on closing with my boss out of the office in this final week of close is never ideal. But in all fairness, something completely unexpected happened and he lost someone near and dear to his heart. I sympathize, and hope he takes the time to heal from this tragedy in his life. I would never wish grief on anyone.<br />
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I thought I would share with you a little about me. I lost my Grandmother when I was 17 and I was absolutely crushed by losing her. We all were. It seems as though any time after that, when I was going through a hard time, was in a rough spot, or contemplating life, there was always a sign that she was there.<br />
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When I was 18, being a little reckless, and in one of the biggest fights with a stupid boy outside my house, a huge owl came swooping down and perched on the mailbox next to us, and just stared at us. This was right after he told me I was a thorn in his side, and that is all I can remember from what happened in this fight. That owl stayed with me for years. As I struggled to find myself and get on the right path.<br />
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I had not seen or heard an owl in a couple years, until I was pregnant, which was no walk in the park either. I was alone, sick, and scared the majority of the time. There was an owl that made my yard its home.<br />
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When I was up all night with not even a 2 week old crying Baby Bear, and I had finally reached the decision to leave my ex husband. I heard an owl outside our window every night.<br />
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Just the other night when I was sitting in my living room, staring off into space, contemplating life, the owl was there. It has been hanging around quite a bit. I'm okay, I just feel comfort with the owl(s) that watch over me, and hoot to let me know they are there.<br />
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I honestly feel God and loved ones that have passed on send you signs when you least expect it. They are all here, watching over you, and letting you know they are there. You just have to watch and listen. <br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-7260619319718076582013-12-11T04:02:00.000+00:002013-12-11T04:02:49.230+00:00Monday Number 2Today started out feeling like a Monday. We woke up on time, but there were so many disasters! I ended up having to clean up our Little Miss Sunshine this morning. Dogs are so much like babies! I was already dressed for work, and trying to be as careful as possible. If you know me, you know that just isn't possible. So there enters the wardrobe malfunction, my tank was on empty, and Baby Bear was Miss Attitude this morning so we left the house late, and I was a tad late to work. 30 minutes to be exact. So, since it's technically Monday (in my mind)It's never too late to give a weekend update, amiright?<br />
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Last week was a blur for me. My last week of the class I was currently in, and I do not feel I did that well. You would think a communications class instructor would have the communication skills to make their intentions and/or expectations clear, but that was not the case in this class! Such a frustrating time was had by all. I'm just glad it is over, and I am on to the next one. Enough school talk.<br />
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My weekend was nothing all that lively. I ended up sick. What started off as a severe allergic reaction turned into a nasty sinus infection, and my body just cannot fight that stuff any longer. The joys of having a weak immune system these days. I missed my nephew turning 4, but made sure Baby Bear went. She stayed with Poppy and Nanny while I got some much needed rest. At the end of the day I was notified that my wreath was ready! I was excited, but bummed at the same time because I was dreading having to get up the next morning feeling the way I did.<br />
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I was pleasantly surprised that I woke up Sunday feeling a little better and picked up my wreath in the morning. Mr A and I had breakfast, and finished our Christmas shopping. I simply cannot wait until Christmas. I love this time year, and being able to view it from the eyes of a child. The wonderment, hopes, and magic is just contagious!<br />
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Here is my Christmas wreath in all its glory. I absolutely LOVE it!<br />
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And here's the story: My favorite Christmas song was always "I Want a Hippopotamus for Christmas" growing up. My parents bought me the button when I was pregnant with Baby Bear, and it is one of her favorite songs now, hence the hippo in the wreath.<br />
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She also sent me home with this little hippo, that is now resting in our tree! She was such a blessing, and wonderful to work with.<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-15885543980032373592013-12-04T19:17:00.001+00:002013-12-04T19:17:13.042+00:00They Aren't Welcome Here<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I know some of you are knee deep in your Elf on the shelf antics and dreaming up of crazy ideas that this mischievous guy or girl can do to get a rise out of your kids. I will start off by telling you that this is not the place to come, to get these ideas and plots for these elves.<br />
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First off, have you seen how genuinely creepy those faces are? I say give the elf a butcher knife with and you have horror stories in the making.<br />
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I understand this has been a huge success in households all over the world, but certainly not in this one. I am sure it is fun for you, but really, who wants to strategically place a DOLL at a crime scene, or make messes at night, that YOU have to clean up? That's some psychiatric material right there. "I didn't do it, it was the elf" uh huh, and dolls come to life..... Straight jacket for you! You might as well invite Chucky to play with your kids. He might be more effective.<br />
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I know many just do it for fun, but I have read so many status updates
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The premise of a tattle tale elf is just extreme for me, especially when some actually thinks he or she makes their children behave better because they report to the big guy every night. Snitches get stitches. Just sayin'<br />
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Then we have the commercialization of Christmas that there are so many complaints about, so you are adding to the commercialization you loathe by adding this evil elf into your home. Makes perfect sense, doesn't it? Is the magic of Christmas and celebration of Christ not enough? Do Santa and God not do enough to keep kids honest, so you obtain an object that magically makes them behave? Oh, I know! These elves MUST be enchanted. (refer back to the straight jacket)<br />
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I am already torn on the entire Santa thing because I feel bad lying to my child. So let's throw an elf in there, and make the guilt ten times worse! That's an excellent idea.<br />
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I have reasoned with myself with the whole "Santa" thing because he is the magic of Christmas and I don't remember being shattered by finding out he wasn't real (except when I asked my Mother if he was real, and she lied and denied, denied, denied, but that's beside the point here). I do remember as soon as I knew it was a sham, that the magic and wonderment was gone. It is all about childhood memories and the hopes and joy the season brings, right?<br />
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Another thing, do you know my child? If you do not, she is the queen of pranks, and our own little comedian. Anything for a laugh with this girl. Could you imagine what she could possibly make this elf do in the years to come?<br />
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Last but not least, I have a hard enough time keeping up with what I
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Maybe I just don't get the premise behind this "Elf" idea because the only elf I know is Buddy. He is the only one that really matters anyway, right? I mean, who doesn't start the season without ELF (the real one)?<br />
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So many NEW and exciting things are happening around here! Someone got a visit from the tooth fairy. She was SUCH a trooper too!</div>
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Can you believe it is DECEMBER already? I cannot! Where has the time gone? Most of you already know I had my tree up in November and gave me flack for it. I didn't skip over Thanksgiving, I more than made up for it!<br />
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I made my little harvest centerpiece, and hung a Happy Thanksgiving sign on my tree. If you follow me on <a href="http://instagram.com/mysafehavens" target="_blank">instagram</a> you can see it <a href="http://instagram.com/p/gt49bhnZi-/" target="_blank">here</a><br />
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I did some baking for Thanksgiving and with the idea from a coworker made s'more brownies, yum! So many people asked for this recipe so here goes. Anyone can do it!<br />
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First, you go to the store and buy your favorite brownie mix (I used Krusteaz, it is amazing) you must have the ingredients the box calls for too.<br />
Graham Crackers<br />
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For the last 10-12 minutes, you are going to want to layer the marshmallows on top of the brownies and bake for the remaining time.<br />
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I also made my notorious pumpkin pies. 3 of those bad boys, with the most beautiful crusts I have ever laid eyes on. I was SO proud of myself.<br />
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It is all in the foil. You must always have foil.<br />
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I spent a whole lot of time with family and friends, and really, what is a gathering without a little drama? Good times were really had by all, and I cannot wait to see what December brings.<br />
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I just ordered my wreath, and I am SO excited and cannot wait to share it with you guys! <br />
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Oh, and that little Elf on the Shelf, I'll be giving you my take on those little elves this week too!<br />
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Please excuse the non-edited pictures and lack of information. I just finished my third paper and my brain is done. Bye bye social life for the next 2 years!<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-21237174235764065912013-11-23T02:55:00.000+00:002013-11-23T02:55:04.950+00:00Things You May Not Know...I have seen so many posts circulating as status updates on facebook lately that I have decided to join, only in a different way. The gist is that someone posts things you may not know about them, people like the status and they give you a number. Knowing my friends they would pick something like 100, so I will pick my own number, and let you guys know some things that not everyone may necessarily know about me.<br />
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I am a devoted Christian and a firm believer in God. He is my savior.<br />
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I was in an extremely abusive relationship for several years.<br />
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I cannot stand cinnamon as in cinnamon gum, cinnamon candles, cinnamon drinks. Those all make me gag.<br />
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I don't drink alcohol of any kind anymore<br />
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I lost my big brother April 16, 2012<br />
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Three letters: O C D<br />
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Patience is one of my weaknesses because I really do not have much<br />
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I always said I never wanted a child when I was younger.I still stood by that until I found out I was pregnant. God had other plans. A funny God he is! Baby Bear saved me, and herself. I did not save myself, and I do not know if <i>I</i> would have, if it weren't for her. See how God works?<br />
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I am a hopeless romantic.<br />
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I absolutely love horror flicks.<br />
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I speak without thinking. I say what I mean, and mean what I say. I stand up for what is right, and if that is wrong, you are in the wrong place and we just can't be friends. A real friend is going to tell it like it is. I'm not the friend that is going to sugarcoat your $#it for you and blow sunshine up your bum. You can find one of those somewhere else; it just isn't here.<br />
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When I was little, I envisioned hundreds of little people were under
the bathtub and that they would all work together to make the bath run,
with their tiny buckets catching the drain water and passing them all to
the top to make it come out of the faucet. Yes, the same little people
lived in the walls and made my lights and fan work too.<br />
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used to twist the legs on all of my little brother's GIJoe's, and always
be surprised when the rubber band broke that held them to the torso
broke. Every.single.time<br />
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I still have hopes for a puppy as a Christmas gift someday (preferably a rottweiler), and a car (not both at the same time) I would love to walk outside and see a brand new car with a big red bow on it. Or open up a box and have a puppy come stumbling out.<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-67109072705151156502013-11-20T15:20:00.001+00:002013-11-20T15:20:22.746+00:00My LoveThere is someone I would like to introduce you guys to. I just cannot live without this person. And I wanted to share with you how much they really mean to me. When you find your person, you just know. I will admit that I have cheated on this individual multiple times, and I have deeply regretted each and every one of those decisions, and I have promised to never let that happen again. This time I really do mean it. Nobody can quite do the things like they can, and make me feel the way that they do. We have honestly been through thick and thin and I swear, I will never stray again. The heartache simply is not worth it.<br />
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So, if you live in the Houston area, I have to introduce you to my hairstylist, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/InstaCare79" target="_blank">Rita</a>. She is phenomenal, and I have been with her for 7 or more years. I can't believe that it has even been this long. She no longer works at the salon I go to, and she has branched out and become a mobile hairstylist! She has all of her own supplies, and she is fully licensed. She is an angel who helps and has touched so many people's lives. Her real passion lies in helping others feel great about themselves. She has such a soft spot for people who cannot physically leave their homes, she has improved lives and confidence in cancer patients, and does the same for every day people just like you and me. She knows me inside and out, and I honestly do not even need a mirror to
see her work because that is how much I trust her to always do what I
have in mind, and with what I want. I love her just as much as I love
her family.<br />
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I have decided to share some my own pictures of what she has done for me over the years. If you are looking for someone new in your life, and are in the area, like her <a href="https://www.facebook.com/InstaCare79" target="_blank">page</a> and give her a call or text! </div>
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<i>*I was not paid, offered services, or any type of discounts for this posting or recommendation* </i></div>
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<i>This is my honest opinion, and I would highly recommend her to any one I meet!</i></div>
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-67090440683458081772013-11-19T14:41:00.000+00:002013-11-19T14:41:38.684+00:00A Pinterest Fail and TriumphSo, I have been seeing all these DIY snowglobes all over Pinterest. So I was dying to do this with Baby Bear. The instructions seemed easy enough.<br />
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I bought all the supplies as instructed. The Christmas trees, water soluble glue, fake snow, jars, and things to make them pretty.<br />
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I let Baby Bear set hers up and I glued it for her. She really did a great job, I was so proud of her!<br />
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But when it came time to add the snow, water, glycerin, and glitter, we had a little problem. If you see the pictures above, the snow is on the bottom, and the water is clear. Here is how hers turned out!<br />
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I just want to know HOW they got their snow to stick to the bottom!<br />
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Anyway, I went ahead and made some cute waterless ones, and Baby Bear made one too! Here is what you need:<br />
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We first glued our trees to the lids of the jars, placed ornaments on Baby Bears' tree, and let them set<br />
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Once set, I placed some of the fake snow around any holes or openings where the lid was showing. I then placed a handful of the fake snow in the bottom of the jar, place the lid on top and voila. There you have a snow globe (waterless of course). I ended up buying some wire burlap-ish ribbon, along with another wire mesh ribbon. I placed the mesh underneath, and placed the burlap around it. I used the hot glue to make them stick. I love the way these turned out!<br />
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Baby Bear did the one on the right in the big picture, which are also the ones featured in the upper right hand corner and lower left hand corner. We really had a lot of fun making these.<br />
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Tiffany @ MySafeHavenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05953554511358932517noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245178438918592929.post-71645091473711732552013-11-18T16:51:00.000+00:002013-11-18T16:51:22.735+00:00Fall Cara BoxCara, meaning beloved friend. This box exchange was started by Kaitlyn at <a href="http://www.wifessionals.com/" target="_blank">Wifessionals</a>. She has been running an exchange for fellow bloggers to get to know one another and send each other gifts.<br />
The theme for this exchange was fall. We were supposed to get to know our partners and send them the things they would love about fall.<br />
I really got lucky with the people I was paired up with, and both of my partners wound up being sisters! Small world, isn't it?<br />
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My person was Tanya who blogs over at <a href="http://baksha.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Baksha Five</a>. I really enjoyed getting to know her as well as learn about her family. We are actually more alike than you would think. I really made a connection with her, and really admire her faith, and the strength she has in God and for her family. She is really raising wonderful children and being the best she can be. I felt she really needed something special this fall, so that is what I did for her, and I really enjoyed doing it. I feel that fall is the season of giving, and I get much joy out of giving to people, especially when I don't have to. I really hope she enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed putting it together for her. Now, I really wish I would have taken some pictures of the final product, but I am sure you will see some featured on her blog.<br />
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Tanya's sister Tina over at <a href="http://me4awhile.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Me for a While</a> was my other partner. She is a busy working mom with boys, and was a sweetheart. I also enjoyed getting to know her and about her love for Halloween and S'mores. Learning about her boys and their costumes this year, and about her day to day activities was enjoyable. Her box arrived just at the right time. We were all having a day at the office, and my coworkers and I love opening these together! It is always a breath of fresh air and the perfect distraction from a hectic day. <br />
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She sent me the cutest fall printable!<br />
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Along with a turkey coloring activity, and lots of Halloween goodies for Baby Bear. Nail polish, the infamous Happy Thanksgiving sign I have hanging on my Christmas Tree.<br />
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I also received pinecones for a fun craft for Baby Bear and I.<br />
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She also sent a crock pot recipe that was one of her family favorites. I have yet to try it because things have been so hectic! Oh, and I cannot forget the big campfire marshmallows that were also sent. I hope we can get around an open fire soon so we put these to good use. Thank you so much for everything you did for us Tina.<br />
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